The way I see it, life is much like looking into many open windows. Looking through these open windows can enable us much growth. Staying open to the world as we gaze into it's magic brings the world into clearer focus. Many times we are baffled by how others behave. Baffled for as many reasons as there exists many realities. The human animal is so unique and strangely true. Try remembering how a single reality is never possible, knowing a single reason is never the truth. In reality we have no place giving advice on how to think.To substantiate this reality you need only one tool.
The tool is passing open windows and even looking in! This mighty power to heal is available to all. We will never be capable of fully grasping our human potential so be accepting of that. Acceptance, so that we begin to take it easier on ourselves and fellow humans. After all every time we humans feel we finally have it sussed Bl@mM0! Life throw's a curve ball, oftentimes we mistakenly beat ourselves wishing we made better choices. Life can be immensely painful and with no rule- book we can only try minute to minute.
